I think that every child needs an Aunt Bertie in their life while growing up. To me she was someone that loved me unconditionally and accepted me and my choices in life as if I were her own child. She was tough with me when I needed it and didn’t mince words, which I needed! She always spoke to me as an adult and valued my opinion and most importantly, she told me what I needed to hear, not always what I wanted to hear.
Growing up I s
pent a lot of time at Aunt Bertie and Uncle Joe’s house. I thought then, as I still do now, that it was the coolest house and I loved to be there and spend time with them. Even an ordinary dinner at their house was fun and made me feel special.
I can’t remember a holiday or important event in my life that Aunt Bertie wasn’t a part of. But for me it wasn’t only about the big, important holidays that we were together, but the ordinary days throughout the years that solidified our relationship.
My heart is hurting right now for the loss of my aunt and for the impact her passing will have on my parents and extended family. Aunt Bertie brought such a sense of humor and quick wit with her everyday right up until the end that added so much flavor and spice to even an ordinary day. I pray that someday we will meet each other again which helps me with the sorrow and sadness I feel at her passing.
In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.
- John 16:33
*The picture above shows my mom on the left with her baby sister Aunt Bertie on the right taken this past February in Florida.
